Harlyn Aizley Knihy

After Harlyn Aizley gave birth, she was taken aback when her partner proclaimed, "I'm your new mommy!" Despite their shared journey to find the ideal sperm donor, Aizley felt a deep connection to the baby as the birth mother. As time passed and they navigated parenting together, Aizley began to recognize the complexities of her partner's role as the "other mother." In search of relatable stories, they found few narratives about families where one woman supports another during childbirth. In response, Aizley compiled a collection of personal stories from women like her partner who are redefining motherhood and creating new parenting roles. Contributors include Hillary Goodridge, a key figure in the Massachusetts same-sex marriage case, comedian Judy Gold, and psychologist Suzanne M. Johnson. This insightful anthology offers a candid look at an often-overlooked aspect of lesbian parenting, blending humor and poignancy. Each story illuminates the diverse experiences of motherhood, providing both gay and straight readers with a richer understanding of love and parenting in the modern era.