Tracy Going Knihy

When Tracy Going, South Africa's celebrated broadcaster, became the subject of sensational headlines in the late 1990s due to her violent relationship, the nation was stunned. Known for her glamorous presence on television and radio, Going's life unraveled dramatically as her fairy-tale romance turned abusive. What began as a captivating love story with a charming partner quickly devolved into a nightmare filled with lies, threats, and physical violence. Just five months into the relationship, she found herself battered and bruised, seeking refuge at a police station. This marked the beginning of a two-and-a-half-year legal battle that unfolded publicly, exposing the injustices of the court system and leading to her descent into depression. The impact on her career was immediate, as the public nature of her assault forced her to confront the psychological scars left behind. Going's narrative also reflects on her childhood in Brits, where she endured the unpredictable violence of an alcoholic father, shaping her understanding of fear and uncertainty. This powerful memoir highlights the long and challenging journey toward healing, emphasizing the importance of self-forgiveness and acceptance in reclaiming one’s life. Ultimately, it serves as a testament to resilience and the possibility of finding hope after trauma.