Frederick Joseph Knihy

Writing from the perspective of a friend, Frederick Joseph offers candid reflections on his own experiences with racism and conversations with prominent artists and activists about theirs, creating an essential read for committed anti-racists and those newly come to the cause of racial justice

Writing from a friend's perspective, Frederick Joseph shares candid reflections on his experiences with racism and discussions with prominent artists and activists, making this an essential read for committed anti-racists and those new to racial justice. Joseph recounts his life as a transfer student in a predominantly white high school, filled with uncomfortable moments that he often overlooked. As he matured, he recognized these instances as missed opportunities to advocate for himself and educate those unaware of their negative impact. Speaking directly to readers, he revisits race-related anecdotes, explaining their hurtfulness and how he would approach them differently today. Each chapter features insights from notable figures, including Angie Thomas, April Reign, and Jemele Hill, addressing topics such as cultural appropriation, power dynamics, "reverse racism," white privilege, and microaggressions, alongside the tragic consequences of overt racism. This work serves as a conversation starter, toolkit, and invaluable perspective from a former "token Black kid" who embodies the supportive friend many readers need. The backmatter includes an encyclopedia of racism, detailing relevant historical events and terminology.

In this personal and poignant collection, the author of the New York Times bestseller The Black Friend examines the culture of masculinity through the lens of a Black man. What does it mean to be a man today? How does the pervasive yet elusive idea of "masculine toxicity" actually reflect men's experiences--particularly those of color--and how they navigate the world? In this thought-provoking collection of essays, poems, and short reflections, Frederick Joseph contemplates these questions and more as he explores issues of masculinity and patriarchy from both a personal and cultural standpoint. From fatherhood, and "manning up" to abuse and therapy, he fearlessly and thoughtfully tackles the complex realities of men's lives today and their significance for society, lending his insights as a Black man. Written in Joseph's unique voice, with an intelligence and raw honesty that demonstrates both his vulnerability and compassion, Patriarchy Blues forces us to consider the joys, pains, and destructive nature of manhood and the stereotypes it engenders.