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Ako využiť konflikt na utuženie vzťahov







Ako využiť konflikt na utuženie vzťahov
Conflict is the number one reason that couples seek help and resources. Fight Right will teach you how to avoid the five critical mistakes that couples often make during conflict, and instead, teach you how to 'fight right' and use conflict as an opportunity for greater intimacy, deeper connection, and lasting love. Using decades of research, compelling case studies and a new international study, Dr Gottman and Dr Schwartz Gottman prove that even couples who are truly struggling in conflict and have really lost their way are able to recover and find their way back to each other. For those couples in crisis, or those who want to change their relationship dynamic, Fight Right is the go-to guide to understanding how to fight better, offering urgent and perennial lessons for healthy conflict.
Čím to je, že některé páry spolu vydrží šťastně až do smrti, zatímco jiné se rozejdou? Je to náhoda? Štěstí? Nebo snad existuje ověřený vzorec, který vám pomůže vztah udržet?Uznávaní vztahoví terapeuti John a Julie Gottmanovi zasvětili svůj profesní život právě těmto otázkám. Svou celoživotní práci přetavili do sedmidenního akčního plánu plného jednoduchých a okamžitě aplikovatelných kroků s jediným cílem – zlepšit vaše soužití. Ať už potřebujete řešit náhlou partnerskou krizi, oživit desítky let trvající manželství nebo jen podpořit nový vztah. >>V knize se mimo jiné dozvíte:* Vědecký vzorec pro dlouhodobý vztah existuje a funguje spolehlivě.* Šťastné páry se nehádají méně než ostatní – hádají se lépe.* Základem vztahu je správně pojmenovat, co zrovna potřebujeme.* Klíčem k úspěchu nejsou velká gesta či honosné dary, ale každodenní maličkosti.* Jak přes všechny povinnosti neztratit spojení s tím druhým. Vitamín L je praktickým receptem na lásku, který vám pomůže zaměřit se na to nejpodstatnější. Díky němu zjistíte, že už pár malých návyků může váš vztah zásadně změnit k lepšímu.
A great "philosopher" once said, "Trying to understand women is like trying to smell the color 9." But the fact is, men can understand women to their great benefit. All they need is the right teacher. And arguably there is no better teacher than John Gottman, PhD, a world-renowned relationships researcher and author of the bestselling 7 principles of Making Marriage Work. His new book, written with wife Julie Gottman, a clinical psychologist, and Doug Abrams and Rachel Carlton Abrams, MD, is based on 40 years of scientific study, much of it gleaned from the Gottman's popular couple's workshops and the "love lab" at the University of Washington. It's written primarily for men because new research suggests that it is the man in a relationship who wields the most influence to make it great or screw it up beyond repair. The Man's Guide to Women offers the science-based answers to the question: What do women really want in a man? The book explains the hallmarks of manhood that most women find attractive, and helps men hone those skills to be the man she desires.
From a leading couple therapist duo comes a practical guide to effective couples therapy. This book offers an inside look at their extensive experience in the field, distilled into ten core principles of successful couples work. Each principle is supported by clinical case studies and personal anecdotes, providing a rich context for understanding the complexities of relationships. Key topics include how to address the elusive nature of "the relationship," empathizing with clients who have conflicting viewpoints, and the implications of separation on perceived success. The authors explore the unique challenges of working with relationships compared to individual clients, including what to prioritize, the right questions to ask, and how to navigate differing client responses. Additionally, they discuss managing the emotional and personal histories that arise during therapy sessions and emphasize the importance of research-based practices. This insightful guide is essential for anyone involved in couples therapy, offering valuable strategies and guidance for navigating the intricacies of relationship dynamics.
The Six-Step Plan for Preserving Marital Intimacy and Rekindling Romance After Baby Arrives
Couples facing the transition to parenthood can benefit from the insights of two relationship experts who provide essential knowledge and skills. The book offers practical advice and real-life examples aimed at preventing relationship strain, maintaining a healthy sex life, preserving emotional intimacy, and preventing postpartum depression. It emphasizes creating a nurturing environment for both partners and their new child, ensuring a smoother adjustment to parenthood.
America's Love Lab Experts Share Their Strategies for Strengthening Your Relationship
Focusing on practical strategies, the book offers scientifically backed tools to help couples restore affection and romance in their marriages. Drawing from their expertise as marital psychologists, the authors emphasize improving communication to overcome years of emotional distance. Each lesson is designed to empower couples to reconnect and strengthen their relationship.