The Soul of Sex

In our age of science and psychology, it’s easy to view human sexuality through a biological lens. However, this insightful work by Thomas Moore presents sex as a profound experience of the soul, focusing on fantasy, desire, meaning, and morality. Moore delves into religion, mythology, literature, and visual imagery, revealing the deep mysteries intertwined with sexuality. He emphasizes the spirituality inherent in sex while acknowledging how spiritual values can sometimes hinder our sexual experiences. Advocating for chastity and celibacy as integral aspects of sexuality, he presents them as pathways to developing a sensuous spirituality. The text asserts that a fulfilling sex life cannot exist in a world that is asexual and antierotic. Moore proposes that society should reduce its moralism and foster a public life that celebrates desire and pleasure. He critiques the media's obsession with sex as a reflection of our cultural struggle to embrace it positively and outlines an Epicurean lifestyle where simple pleasures—good food, friendship, family, and nature—create a solid foundation for a satisfying sex life. This work serves as a guide for individuals and couples seeking to integrate sexuality into their lives with honesty and depth, arguing for the essential role of sex in our priorities. Ultimately, when sex is infused with soul, it can lead to profound pleasure and meaning.